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Femininity Is Your Secret Weapon—Let’s Make it Second Nature

You’ve built the career, the success, the life.

You’re accomplished, intelligent, and the kind of woman who makes things happen.

But somewhere between hitting goals, leading conversations, and getting sh*t done, the effortless ease of femininity faded—or maybe, it never fully developed in the first place.

You’ve mastered strategy, independence, and ambition. But what about softness, magnetism,­ and presence?

What if femininity was the missing advantage—the one thing that made everything else fall into place?

Spoiler: It is.

Spoiler Alert:

The secret sauce to a toast-worthy life isn’t found in hustle culture, embracing your divine goddess, or acting like a man.

It’s time to assess if the path you’re chasing can really fulfill your desired results.

You don’t have to contort yourself into someone else’s vision of womanhood

Let’s get one thing straight: This isn’t about playing small, performing femininity, or becoming someone you’re not.

It’s about showing up in a way that makes people lean in—not look past you.

It’s about walking into a room and owning it without needing to prove yourself.

It’s about knowing when to lean into your femininity for attraction, connection, and influence—without losing an ounce of your edge.

Most women assume femininity is something you’re born with—or not. But just like leadership, negotiation, or confidence, it’s a skill set.

And once you learn it? It changes the game.

Boldy Embracing your Femininity Presents Like…

Leaning into Your Desires

Whether you're a stay-at-home mama, ambitious career woman, or any other spicy combination, you have a unique imprint on your heart of what your life should look like – let’s explore it.

Cultivating Peace and Softness

Act like a guy? Gosh no! When you step-in to this work you’ll operate from a place of flow and joy. That my dear, is a key ingredient in what makes a woman absolutely irresistible!

Showcasing Yourself in Moments that Matter

No more clamming up when you’re around the guy you like, or fumbling your work presentation because of unwelcomed nerves. Be feminine, poised and unforgettable.

The femininity blueprint:

Elevate, Embody, Magnetize

This isn’t about learning how to be feminine.

It’s about mastering the unspoken skills that make femininity second nature.

1.
Start with the Vision

First, we refine your presence. No more questioning how to “be more feminine.” We strip away the conditioning that told you femininity was about passivity or aesthetics. Instead, we craft an identity that’s yours—one that enhances your confidence, attraction, and influence.

2.
Build in Your Rituals

Then, we build rituals that make it effortless. No forcing, no faking—just daily shifts that naturally bring out your most magnetic self.

3.
Upskill Your Tools, and Bring Your Vision to Life

Finally, we refine the details that make you unforgettable. Posture, body language, energy, and communication—so you command any space with ease.

This isn’t about thinking differently. It’s about moving, speaking, and showing up differently.

And once you do? You’ll never have to introduce yourself twice.

hey lovely, I’m Sarah
Founder & CEO of The Femininity Project

Let’s Define Femininity On Your Terms

For over two decades, I’ve studied the art of presence, influence, and movement—first as a World-Class Competitive Dancer, then as a coach helping women refine their feminine magnetism in everyday life.

I know what you’re thinking: Can femininity really be taught?
Yes. And once you learn it, everything changes.

My work isn’t about forcing you into a one-size-fits-all mold of womanhood. It’s about showing up in a way that makes people lean in, not look past you.

I’ve worked with entrepreneurs, creatives, and ambitious women who were already successful—but felt something was missing. They were tired of leading every conversation, exhausted from being in “get-it-done” mode, and craving the kind of feminine ease that attracts opportunities, romance, and a richer life—without them having to chase it.

And it works.

I’ve coached women to step into their presence, amplify their energy, and make unforgettable first impressions. I was even the walking coach for the reigning Mrs. International—who took home the crown. Because when your energy is right? You don’t just show up. You take up space.

Let’s make that your reality.

WAYS TO WORK TOGETHER

You’re ready to refine, elevate, and step into your most magnetic self. Here’s where we start:
1. Explore the
Digital Shop

Masterclasses, tools, and resources designed for every stage of your femininity journey.

SOUNDS
NICE
2. Take The Flagship
Heels Course

Walk in heels with complete confidence and zero pain—finally.

TEACH ME YOUR HIGH-HEELED WAYS
3. Apply For
Private Coaching

When you’re ready for a completely customized experience, private coaching is where transformation happens fast.

I'D LIKE
THAT

I love you. Thank you so much for being alive
"I lost my femininity when I became a mother. After working with Sarah it’s coming back! You created such a safe space for me to by myself and reign back in my femininity in a gentle and inviting way. Sarah is patient, kind, and wasn’t afraid to correct me. She was able to give feedback in a way where I didn’t feel stupid or awkward, and created such a fun space to learn and grow. My body has also started to feel more aligned and my back pain has gone away because of her training in mobility exercise. I love you. Thank you so much for being alive."

cathy says:

simone says:

RECOVER WHAT YOU MIGHT FEEL HAS GOTTEN LOST -
A LIL' BIT OF BEAUTY AND A DASH OF MYSTERY.
"Sarah gave me something that I thought was 'lost' - to be a woman with all its beauty and mystery. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing your wonderful gift with me."

Working on your femininity enhances who you are – it doesn’t diminish it.
"I absolutely love that working on my femininity doesn’t mean that I have to change everything about me or diminish my accomplishments. Not only can Sarah teach you how to walk, sit, and dance but she’s a dating guru! I’m sharing with all of my girlfriends and sending them your way! You have changed my life, and it’s been so fun working together!"

courtney says:

marit says:

It’s easier than you think to be the best version of you
"I don’t know when yoga pants and t-shirts became my everyday attire, but by making an effort to dress with more intention, be more feminine and look better, I know I feel better. I thoroughly enjoyed my sessions with Sarah. I now have a clear sense of style, and with her guidance, I can see what works well for my body type and colouring. It’s easier than you think to be the best version of you."

michelle says:

Everyone at work has seen the difference in my style, appearance, and confidence, and are all dying to work with Sarah too!
"I’ve always idolized the pinup/rockabilly/1050’s style but I wasn’t super confident in executing it without looking out of date or like I was playing dress up. Sarah helped me to find a way to incorporate it in with the clothes I already have. Everyone at my work has seen the difference in style, appearance and confidence and are all dying to have a session with Sarah too! And the tips in rocking a night out in a pair of heels has been a game changer. No heel too high for this gal!"

LOOK AT YOU!

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